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Would this work or just make people upset? (startrek.website)
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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I prefer the backup plan. I schedule secondary commitments a few hours after the first one, so I have a reason to bail if it's not going well. If it's going great, I cancel the (less important) backup.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

That sounds like you have friends that you cancel a lot on. Most people I know just stop inviting them to do things when they usually refuse. Because that's usually a sign.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Lmao, I can promise you the people in your life you do this to know about it, and think you're a dick. It's not subtle if someone always has 'another appointment' after an hour they have to go to.