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[โ€“] [email protected] -3 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Consider the scenario where you meet a man. You know his name is Bradley (either through mutual friends or whatever), but he introduces himself as Alex. You can call him Bradley, and it would be technically correct, but it would be slightly rude when he has explicitly given his preferred name as Alex.

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I don't think that's quite right. It's more like referring to him by another title such as "a friend of mine" or "a guy I met at the mall yesterday" etc.

[โ€“] Feathercrown 8 points 1 day ago

That's a false equivalence. A name is a unique identifier while pronouns serve only a mechanical linguistic purpose.