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[โ€“] [email protected] -2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Yes, if you are aware of someone's preferred pronouns and choose to ignore them.

[โ€“] Feathercrown 12 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

It's arguably ignoring their preferences, but how is it misgendering? they/them is gender neutral-- it implies nothing about their gender at all.

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It does when you only do it for trans people. This is a common thing that a lot if trans people have experienced so it kinda comes across as being "PC" while not acknowledging their identity.

[โ€“] Feathercrown 1 points 18 hours ago

I suppose that's fair. Most people I know who do this do it for cis people as well though.