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Unexpected generation gap (self.casualconversation)

submitted 2 weeks ago by wjrii to c/[email protected]

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I am mid-40s. My daughter is 11. I take her to school, among other driving things, and usually play NPR. Whenever she needs to refer to what she's hearing -- usually to ask if I'll turn it off so she can pull up some godawful thing where a random Youtuber squawks discordant lyrics to a Pokémon video game score -- she calls it a podcast. I've stopped correcting her, particularly since most of the "shows" release as podcasts by the next day anyway.

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[–] BananaTrifleViolin 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

Is it really a generation gap? Would you have wanted to listen to NPR when you were 11? And wouldn't you have been deliberately snarky to annoy your parents? She obviously knows what a radio is because... you use one every day?

This isn't a "generation gap", this is a teenager trying to rile up there parent. Do you tell her that her youtube shows are "godawful"? Because that's how you get into a coldwar of her pretending she doesn't know what a radio is to make you feel old.

EDIT: The good news is when she gets out the other side of being a teenager, she might even listen to NPR in the car because that's what her parents used to do.

[–] glimse 9 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I think you missed the thing they were referring to with the age gap - the kids called the radio a podcast. Not that OP being surprised that kids don't like talk radio

[–] BananaTrifleViolin 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I think you misunderstood what I'm saying; I'm saying the kid is deliberately calling the radio a podcast to annoy OP. They know what a radio is because they've grown up with their parent using it day in day out in the car. So it's not an age gap as OP thinks, I'm saying this one is probably the early stages of the long war known as "having teenage kids".

[–] glimse 2 points 2 weeks ago

Ah I got you. I've seen similar things happen so often with kids hat hadn't crossed my mind. My nephew thought his grandma's cordless (landline) phone was a remote control and wouldn't believe otherwise until I called it. "Why is it beeping???" "That's called a dialtone" "what's it supposed to do???"

[–] wjrii 4 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

As @[email protected] said, I'm more interested in how something as seemingly pervasive as radio is a relic that she assumes is just one more streaming option. She approaches the world pretty literally, and just straight-up tells me that she doesn't want to listen to my stuff, LOL.

We're not quite into teen rebellion yet, though I can sense her beginning to probe at boundaries. She's a good kid with a kind heart, and she's finding her path, and I'll always support her wherever it leads, but by god I'm not listening to this when I'm trapped in a car with her. 🤣