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Men, are you physically affectionate with other male friends? (eg, hugging, snuggling, playful wrestling, etc). If you aren't, do you wish it was more socially acceptable if it isn't in your culture? (pawb.social)

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (3 children)

Hugging friends -- yes and easy. Snuggling -- never. And this doesn't apply only to men, it applies to women whom I don't find attractive as well.

Physical affection from someone I don't find attractive is super akward. Now I'm a cis straight male, so this principle applies to essentially all men.

P.S. OP, if you like more actual physical affection from your male friends, it's maybe just time to come out of the closet. This is lemmy, nobody is really straight around here anyways

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Snuggling -- never. And this doesn't apply only to men, it applies to women whom I don't find attractive as well.

What about nonhuman animals? Do you dislike cuddly dogs?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago

If they smell, no way. A cuddly cat can be enjoyable

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